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Pageants instill negative values

smoot.43@osu.edu

Published: Sunday, January 31, 2010

Updated: Friday, June 15, 2012 22:06

Picture this: You see a cute, spunky girl with blonde, coiffed hair, an overly made-up face with pink lipstick and blue eye shadow to match. She's wearing an itty-bitty bikini with red hot pumps and a bright, white smile on her face. She sashays sexily across the stage and pulls moves that a high-class stripper would envy. Then you find out that she's 7 years old.


In December 1996, 6-year-old beauty pageant star JonBenét Ramsey was kidnapped and murdered in her home Christmas day. Described by her parents as a "pint-sized sex kitten,", Ramsey's murder remains unsolved to this day. While there have been many false accusations and confessions, some people suspect that her beauty pageants and her sexualized outfits might have had something do with her murder.


Almost 14 years after Ramsey's murder, thousands of girls as young as 2 have continued to enter these heated competitions with their stage moms acting as their pimp-managers.

While watching TLC's "Toddlers and Tiaras," I was disgusted and angered to see these innocent, young girls go through hours of sun tanning and airbrushing, hair and makeup, and sexy "dance" routines to prepare for an otherwise trivial contest to please their mothers. I was even more shocked when one little girl, wearing an extremely revealing bikini, posed provocatively in front of the cameras and declared, "I look gooooood!"


Although proponents of the pageant industry claim that these pageants "raise confidence and self-esteem" in their contestants, many fail to acknowledge that these pageants not only place an unhealthy emphasis on a girl's physical attributes, but that they also sexualize and exploit these "pint-sized sex kittens" for pure entertainment. TLC's show "Toddlers and Tiaras" has been met with so much disdain that hundreds of Facebook users have banned together to ban the "parade for pedophiles."


Though the opponents of "Toddlers and Tiaras" and baby pageants come off as extremely harsh in their criticism, the critics do make a point. With scantily clad little girls gyrating on stage, it is no wonder that child pageants could be viewed as every pedophile's dirty fantasy. Although parents of the pageant stars view these pageants as innocent, fun activities, many do not realize that there could possibly be some perverted person lurking in the background looking at their children in a not-so-innocent fashion.


Some people may say that these overpriced baby pageants are cute and that these pageants instill rigorous work ethic, a sense of responsibility and confidence in the minds of these young girls. You want to instill all these characteristics in a child? Then make her do chores around the house and reward her with allowance, and leave the lipstick, hair spray and sexed-up outfits in her mother's closet.

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11 comments

Anonymous
Mon Nov 14 2011 08:01
She was murdered. Her mother pushed her - she fell against a hard surface - breaking her skull. She survived (but that injury would in time have killed her). At that stage it could have been called Accidental Manslaughter. When the ligature was put around her neck - and this is the part that killed the child - then it became MURDER.
Anonymous
Wed Feb 3 2010 06:34
She wasn't held against her will,she was accidentally killed by someone in her family.The autopsy report doesn't say that she was STRANGLED to death by the way.It's not a kidnapping if a parent hide's his childs body in the basement.period.
Anonymous
Tue Feb 2 2010 13:44
FYI: Jonbenet Ramsey, in all technical terms, WAS kidnap. Kidnapping is much more broad than just taking someone far, far away. Kidnapping is also holding someone against his or her own will/forcing someone into one room into the other. Jonbenet Ramsey was indeed held against her will before being STRANGLED to death in her very own home.

To kidnap: The crime of unlawfully seizing and carrying away a person by force or Fraud, or seizing and DETAINING a person against his or her will with an intent to carry that person away at a later time.

Jonbenet was definitely seized and detained by her killer.

So let's not be so narrow about definitions, shall we?

Anonymous
Tue Feb 2 2010 12:55
For Anonymous who is insulting journalists, this was not someone working as a reporter. If you would look, this is an opinion writer. This is her OPINION.
Buckeye Mom
Mon Feb 1 2010 12:01
The moms (and sometimes dads) who allow - no, PUSH - their daughters to participate in these pageants seem to be doing nothing more than living their lives through their child/children (there are sometimes sisters competing). It's so very sad. It makes me think that these parents must have very poor self-images. Children already grow up far too fast. If the children do turn out relatively unaffected, I think it is a miracle.
Whatever happened to Jonbenet, she is beyond our pity and anger. We can only hope that those to caused her death will pay for it at some time - either in this life, or the next.
Anonymous
Mon Feb 1 2010 09:57
You have to go back to13 years and 1 month ago (not almost 14 years) to find a topic for a story? I would hope there are more pressing things happening in the world today so you wouldn't have to rehash this families tragedy. No wonder the jounalists of today are as bad as they are if you are taught to relive the past and not look to the future.
Anonymous
Mon Feb 1 2010 09:31
Ok, she wasn't kidnapped. Let the poor little girl rest in piece. The MAIN topic of this is the fact that little girls are being sexualized by their own mothers. I watched one of those MTV specials,and they showed two of girls who were in pageants when they were little at age 16. One was a normal teenager who no longer participated (even though she was the prettier, smarter and more talented one as a child) and the other, well, she just made me cringe. So it goes to show, that depending on how your parents continue to raise you, you can take what you learned and apply it to the real world, or you can remain shallow individual who needs people to reaffirm, how special you are. I personally think that child pageants are sad, but I am not gonna lie, when I was a little girl, all I wanted to be was Miss America.
Sabra
Mon Feb 1 2010 08:43
This is what you took from the article? That Jonbenet wasn't kidnapped? These parents are EVIL for making/allowing their little girls to participate in these "pedophile parades". Apparently parents have learned nothing from the Ramsey family's devastating mistake. These girls aren't learning high self esteem - thats like saying a stripper has high self esteem when she parades in front of drunk men, hoping they find her attractive enough to part with their dollar bills. They are learning that if they aren't what everyone else wants of them, they won't get anything they need in life. And that's sick.
Sarah
Mon Feb 1 2010 07:39
I agree,this is the worst you can do to a small child but why do we always have to compare it to poor Jonbenet,may she RIP.And she wasn't kidnapped,you are misleading your readers.
M.D.
Mon Feb 1 2010 07:33
Did you do your research on this case?JonBenet WASN'T kidnapped.
Anonymous
Mon Feb 1 2010 03:12
Jonbenet wasn't kidnapped,get your facts straight.




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