Commentary: Always love Whitney Houston, don’t take to social media to insult her

By Qynshela Sanders

sanders.443@osu.edu

Published: Sunday, February 12, 2012

Updated: Sunday, February 12, 2012

Whitney Houston

Courtesy of MCT

Whitney Houston, once dubbed ‘The Queen of Pop,’ died in Beverly Hills, Calif., Feb. 11.

The entertainment world has suffered another loss: the death of the incomparable Whitney Houston. After her many struggles with sobriety and confrontations with the media, the singer was found dead in her room on the fourth floor of the Beverly Hilton Hotel in Beverly Hills, Calif., Saturday.

Despite Houston's uphill battle with addiction, she is noted to be one of the greatest entertainers of all time. The singer and actress shattered the charts with her ground-breaking hits such as "The Greatest Love of All," "I Will Always Love You" and her own rendition of the nation anthem, prompting many to dub her the "queen of pop music."

With the news of her passing, many took to the web. "R.I.P. Whitney Houston" and "#IWillAlwaysLoveYou" became trending topics on Twitter and people began paying their respects to the late entertainer and her family. Sadly, the level of grief could not overpower the ignorance that was developing.

People began to make jokes about her death and her addiction problems. People belittled her passing with thoughts of, "Another addict gone," and, "Who cares, people die every day," in their tweets.

I know that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and that's not my issue. My issue is the lack of respect a person can have for the deceased. Granted, Houston has been in the public eye for her fight with addiction and has sometimes made herself an object of ridicule with her outlandish behavior and comments during award shows, or her interview with Diane Sawyer in which she coined the phrase, "Crack is whack."

It deeply bothers me to know that there are people who have no respect for her or her grieving family.

Oftentimes, when superstars pass away, the public only focuses on their flaws and never celebrates their achievements. It's like some people only care about Houston's shortcomings, forgetting the fact that she was human, that she made mistakes and had to deal with those internal issues every day.

It's disgusting to me to see people are making a parody out of someone's death. Death is not a fun matter whether the person is a celebrity or not. Why make a mockery of a death? Is it entertaining? Is it easy to hate someone you don't even know, or is that a way for you to feel powerful over your own insecurities? If you don't want to share your condolences to her family and pay your respects that's fine, but don't be completely heartless and ignorant.

Houston was more than an entertainer to the black community and to the entertainment world. She was, to many, our princess. Her grace, style, charisma and timeless beauty gave us all a reason to love and emulate her. She set the bar of excellence high and paved the way for many popular female artists of today. Regardless of her misfortunes, she was a very gifted woman and her legacy will continue to grow and live through her fans.

Comments

9 comments
Hurtz Donut
Sat Feb 18 2012 02:23
So much for her starring in the new sequel "The Body Bag"
TMZ
Tue Feb 14 2012 00:34
BRAVO WHITNEY BRAVO! It was one of the best exits to your decades long devotion to the best method acting of all time. It is being reported that she spent countless hours practicing to star in her own oscar-worthy film about her fake life since music. Staging public events and shoots for the tabloids, faking both drug and spousal abuse. She even hired a professional special effects makeup artist to show bruises from Bobby, dark sunken eyes from her "binge weekends", and scratchy voice from "smoking". A truly remarkable actress, she finally went beyond any other method actress before by killing herself just for the ultimate ending to the film. Simply remarkable. BRAVO! Bellissimo!!
Anonymous
Mon Feb 13 2012 22:36
Well said QYNSHELA......to those who don't know the meaning of respect.....God don't make mistakes, He only takes the BEST. Rest in peace WHITNEY.
Anonymous
Mon Feb 13 2012 18:04
I agree 100%. Its sad to see what this world is turning into. Unfortunately, karma does exist and if you laugh at death it will surely find a way to laugh back at you. ~Good Bye Whitney hope to see you with the King~
Shawn Thomas
Mon Feb 13 2012 17:09
Great commentary Qynshela! You made some very good points here and hopefully people realize what exactly they are saying when they say hurtful things like that trying to be a comedian.
Qynshela Sanderrs
Mon Feb 13 2012 08:33
Looks like Kevin Costner was asleep on the job...
Poop Stain McQueen
Mon Feb 13 2012 01:11
At least we can now know that she is at peace and enjoying her first few days of seeing her being sober.
Anonymous
Mon Feb 13 2012 00:40
Glad to know I'm not the only one sick and tired of the disrespect and the sinister remarks. It's sickening. Thank you for writing this. We need to promote love in this world... there's way too much hate already!
Anonymous
Sun Feb 12 2012 22:25
thankyou well said
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