In the Feb. 28, issue of the Lantern, there appeared an article entitled ‘Condoms not Answer to Responsible Sex’ by Rich Bordner. Bordner attempts to promote sex after marriage. This is a very important topic, however, there were a few problems with the facts and the manner in which he portrayed them.

The article states the HIV virus can easily pass through condoms, and condoms have a failure rate of 31 percent. According to the Centers for Disease and Control Prevention, February 1993, condoms used consistently and correctly when engaging in sexual intercourse greatly reduce the risk of some STDs, including HIV.

The FDA requires and monitors the testing of condoms. This testing shows they can provide 98-99 percent protection against pregnancy and AIDS. The FDA states that it is difficult for HIV/AIDS to pass through the walls of a latex condom. It is true that in a Family Health International study there was a 20 percent failure rate of condoms in the transfer of HIV in some studies. However, in a study by the FDA of 123 discordant couples (1 infected partner, 1 not infected) who used condoms consistently, none of the non-infected partners were infected. Nevertheless, 9 percent (12) of the couples who were not using condoms consistently became infected.

Bordner also says that “we (students) can control over their hate, prejudice, and anger, we can certainly control our libidos.” If this is the case, then you wouldn’t hear the news of a student’s death caused by other students. No student would be beaten or killed for his/her sexual preference or race. Since this is not the case, there may be some individuals who cannot control their libidos.

For those who chose not to engage in premarital sex, I respect you for your decisions. Don’t feel out of place for your decisions. You are taking a mature and safe route through relationships, but do not put down those who chose to live alternatively.

For those who chose to have premarital sex, know that you do put yourself at risk, and please be as responsible as possible. The risk of contracting HIV/AIDS is highest among the age group of college students. Be aware that their are other STDs that can be contracted, even with the use of condoms. (See pg. 10 of the Feb. 28 issue of the Lantern, article ‘Undetectable Diseases plaguing College Students’)

I agree with the idea that sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to it. Sex can be a wonderful gift, if both parties treat it as such. Be honest, responsible, supportive, and understanding; it may lead to a marriage, or a better marriage.

Sean NeerUndergraduate StudentHistory